I don't know why you would ask about the measurements, you have your truck with you. Why not measure what you have? This is not the time to get aggressive with the tightening. Those old castiron flanges have been heat-cycled thousands of times and will have become nearly as brittle as glass.
My best advice is to make the contact surfaces as smooth as is possible then use a reasonable torque and an exhaust heat resistant gasket material to make the final seal. I do not know what you level of tooling is, but, if you have a lathe you might be able to make a sleeve that slips inside the manifold and the tailpipe to help with alignment and sealing.
On our original R120 with the 220SD, I did not use a gasket at the connection to the tail-pipe. I made and used a doughnut ring that fit a taper in the manifold and I had the muffler shop put a slight flare in the down-pipe. Our 220SD had 3 inch pipe at the manifold connection and all the way to behind the right rear fender. I installed a
https://www.magnaflow.com/ muffler.
If you turn the exhaust out to one side your truck will not have the situation of following exhaust getting into the low pressure area behind the tailgate and wafting over the truck when you stop.
I never put any exhaust out the back. Our 1940 Fat Fender Ford design carries a low pressure area behind the trunk lid. Without a 100% seal, there will be exhaust fumes in the car. I built a custom canopy for our R120 and this added to the low pressure area. I had the exhaust turned out behind the left rear fender. The engine was an idi Diesel and smoked a little. You do not want the $hit in your cabin.